There’s a few types, using the social media thing:
A) Social media addict that deep down hates what he’s doing and wishes there was more to life
B) Social media addict that doesn’t give a shit
The one who doesn’t give a shit is probably satisfied enough with his or hers adequate life. That’s fine.
Reading one of Ben’s posts would probably be the trigger for type A to grow towards his goals.
That’s what Ben is doing, not judging.