Men and women aren’t looking for a certain type… they are randomly falling through space, happening upon each other largely through circumstance and chance encounter.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” — Carl Jung
People are mostly the same(when you share a culture and Zeitgeist). The details are what’s different.
And everyone is subconsciously looking for things. That’s why the concept of “type” exists. Everyone has a type they are attracted to.