“Don’t Care About What Others Think” Is Terrible Advice

“A desaturated long-exposure shot of people crowding on stairs in a large public building” by José Martín Ramírez C on Unsplash

Why?

How to change boxes?

How to get less negatively-biased feedback

How to know who to listen to

TL;DR; Care about what others think, but only enough to not end up completely ostracized, make your own box after fitting in another box for a while.

Strong opinions, loosely held.

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